It is amazing how judgemental we can sometimes be .... i thought of that today , deeply . what made me think that way was the fact that i realise that i have judged a lot of people for a lot of things through my life , i promised myself i would never be them i would never do what  they do. I promised myself i would be stronger , different , i would always speak my mind , be happy protect the ones i love. Yet lately  i found myself turning more and more into this person i don't know i person i do not respect .It amazes me when i think about it . i try and blame other people for it , but there is no one to blame but me . I despised women who were too submissive to their husbands i would get mad at them and look down upon them  , i would wonder why the hell are they so passive . and now i am exactly that i would at any time avoid confrontation to avoid fights and quarrels , because really i can't take one more fights , yet they keep coming , but at least with my silence i don't cause more .but by doing that i lose my respect for myself